Showing posts with label Babies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Babies. Show all posts

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Bumpalicious

I'm loving the pregnancy flair of so many of my favorite bloggers right now! They're making me crave having my own bun in the oven -- eeps!

Photos, from top-bottom: Celia of Hank and Lucy, Stacy of Heart + Sew, Aura of Aura Joon, Melissa of Dear Baby, Ashley of Hither and Thither, Jamie of Hank and Lucy, Carolee Beckham of Carolee Beckham: The Blog, Jodi of Ché and Fidel.

Congratulations, all you lovely mamas!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Amautik Amazing

I recently discovered (and have since become obsessed with learning about) an amazing kind of coat, called an Amautik (also amaut or amauti, plural amautiit). Unlike other babywearing outerwear that I am familiar with, the Amautik is a baby carrier and coat all-in-one. The traditional coat of the Canadian Inuit people, these garments have a built-in pouch for carrying a baby or child on the adult's back, and are as beautiful as they are practical. Just look:

Customarily made of animal skins or thick woolen cloth, the Amautik holds the baby against the mother's back inside the pouch and feature sumptuous, oversized hoods that are large enough to cover both mother and child. They look sooooo cozy. Here are a couple of modern-day interpretations that I discovered online:

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Maxime dans un amauti

Here's a cool (and adorable!) video I found on YouTube that shows a great demonstration of how to wear a swaddled baby facing out in an Amautik:


And here is a brief sequence from the film Atanarjuat (The Fast Runner) which gives a sense of the Amautik tradition. I love that the child being worn in this clip is well into toddlerdom, and also completely naked inside the warmth of the Amautik. Just lovely.



Are you like me, do you totally want one now?!? Amauti Baby is a small, Inuit-owned and operated company that creates custom-designed coats along authentic, traditional lines, for babywearing mamas. Check out their website for more information on how to place an order. International shipping available!

Image sources, top-bottom: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Thursday Links

Photo by Jim Wildman, NPR

Sometimes the good stuff piles up on my laptop faster than I can blog about it. Here are some amazing links that just can't wait to be shared. Read, listen, learn and enjoy:

Midwives save lives in Afghanistan (thanks to all the readers who sent this clip to me!):



And lastly, you must listen to this great podcast about the impact of birthing practices on breastfeeding.

Let me know your thoughts!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Modersohn-Becker on Breastfeeding

"I sketched a young mother with her child at her breast, sitting in a smoky hut. If only I could someday paint what I felt then! A sweet woman, an image of charity. She was nursing her big, year-old bambino, when with defiant eyes her four-year-old daughter snatched for her breast until she was given it. And the woman gave her life and her youth and her power to the child in utter simplicity, unaware that she was a heroine."
--Paula Modersohn-Becker

Quote and painting via a wonderful gem
of a little book I recently discovered, called

Friday, September 17, 2010

Guest Post: Georgia from Gregarious Peach on Letting Go

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Late last night I was whispering sweet nothings to my Theo. This is not a rare occurrence; while he nurses I generally like to pour my adoration on him. I am making the most of the time I have before he’ll get embarrassed by such nonsense and say “Muuuuum!” instead of gazing back at me lovingly.

As he started to fuss and cry, I patted his head and pulled him in close, whispering my promises to him;

“I’ve got you baby boy, I’m holding you.

I will be here holding you always.

Always”.


As he settled back down into a sleepy nursing session, the word ‘always’ was ringing in my ears. As I heard myself saying it again and again, I realised; always is something I cannot promise my Theo. I could feel a lump forming in my throat. As I watched him nurse and my body filled with motherly hormones, I tried to rephrase my statement in my mind.

Aside from the unpredictable, I thought –

‘Always, unless I die’.

Yep, that sounded better.

No wait - a more horrifying thought which I could barely let myself think surfaced,

“Always, unless you die”.

Yep, unless either of us die, I would be here holding him always.

Thinking a little more, I added for good measure,

‘Always, unless the world explodes’.

Yep, all bases covered. I was glad to have that sorted in my mind. Unforeseeable aside, I would be here holding him always.

As I pondered that more, I began to realise - I could promise to be here, but Theo was returning no such promise to me.

In fact as I gazed at my sweet little man, I knew that it will probably not be something unpredictable or unforeseeable that would bring an end to me holding my sweet boy, it was in fact the most constant, predictable and unchanging, it was time. It will start slowly at first, and for that one grace, I am thankful. Time will fool me into almost not noticing it’s happening.

First; he’ll grow too big for my lap. Too big for nursing, too big to listen to me smother him in love. These changes will all be softened with the delight at watching him grow and change but it doesn’t negate the fact that one day, he’ll leave and I won’t know when he’s coming back.

I pulled my boy as close as I could. The lump in my throat was a full-blown knot and I could feel tears starting to prick my eyes. I repositioned myself and stroked his head with my spare hand. As I ran my hand back and forth through his soft baby fuzz I tried to rephrase my promise. It took me a while to whisper what I knew I must.

“I will be here loving you always, and then, then.... I will let you go”.

And only after I’d said it aloud did I realise just how much I loved him.


P.S. (From Leigh): Read more of Georgia's reflections on motherhood at her heart-stoppingly beautiful blog, Gregarious Peach. Oh, and have a kleenex handy. The photos of sweet Theo and his sister Priya are enough to put a lump in your throat, but it is Georgia's way with words and her introspective yet joyous way of parenting that will really get to you.

Guest Post: Elita from Blacktating on Scevole de Sainte-Marthe

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And I, for suckling, no fix'd hour prescribe;
This Nature teaches best the nursing tribe:
Let her your mistress be; and when, with cries
The hungry child demand his due supplies,
Forbear not you the wish'd relief to bring
But, for his use, unlock the sacred spring:
Nor then be loath your snowy breast to bare,
That he may suck, and streaming fragrance share.

--Scevole de Sainte-Marthe, Paedotrophia, 1584

Scevole de Sainte-Marthe was a French poet who was born in 1536. This stanza is from Paedotrophia, a Latin poem in three books on pregnancy, childbirth and the caring of infants. Sainte-Marthe became interested in the care of infants after two of his own children died of small pox in infancy. He doled out what most of us today would believe to be commonsense good advice: breastfeed your baby, on demand, nurse him when he cries, keep him warm and close to you, and even once you start on solid food, remember that he still needs lots of his mother's milk.

Interestingly, Sainte-Marthe strongly disliked the use of wet nurses, which was a popular practice at the time. He asked, "What tenderness can o'er from her be known, Who, for another's child, neglects her own?"

Painting by Kate Hansen

P.S. (From Leigh): Check out Elita's wonderful blog, Blacktating, for a wealth of information and inspiration, along with thought provoking-posts that really speak to women who are passionate about breastfeeding, natural and green living and attachment parenting!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Guest Post: P. from What Possessed Me on Waiting for Baby

Any day now - any hour, any minute - the call will come and the wagons will circle. My brother and sister-in-law, in an act of abounding love and staggering impracticality, are about to have a third baby in their tiny New York City apartment. It's been four years since their twins were born, ten and eight years since my eldest nieces came into the world, and we're all waiting with baited breath to meet this new addition to our expanding family.

The twins, however, are not so sure what to think. The adults are trying to pull a fast one - trying to convince them how fun it will be once the baby arrives - but they are wise to our little con. At night they caucus in their bunk beds, scheming and plotting in their private language.
"You're going to be a big brother!" I say to my nephew. "What are you going to do when the baby comes home?"
"Flush it down the terlet," he answers, reasonably.
Right. What big brother wouldn't?

In an atmosphere of anticipation and uncertainty, the twins root around my parents' toy chest for familiar, well loved things. Uncharacteristically, they skip over the shiny plastic gew gaws, pulling out Lamby (my beloved eyeless, partially crippled stuffed sheep) and cradling Ronkey (my cherished eyeless, partially hairless stuffed donkey) instead. They unearth my brother's old train set, my father's tin soldiers, a set of old moldy blocks, a forgotten slide rule. Perhaps it's the comfort of continuity that draws them to these unglamorous, down-at-heel vestiges of our childhood. Three generations of sticky fingers have pawed and cuddled and played with these toys. Now they are tried and tested companions through good times and bad. I like to think that old toys like the ones pictured here (available at the wonderful Topsy Design) have magical powers to soothe, comfort and inspire.

With love, anticipation and thanks,
P. from What Possessed Me

P.S. (From Leigh): What Possessed Me is one of my desert-island blogs. Like if I didn't have food and water and other essentials of life, P.'s gloriously humane and heartbreakingly hilarious insights would keep me going. She's that good.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Guest Post: Anna from Rummey Bears on Pregnancy and Birth After Infertility

I am so honored to be guest posting on one of my favorite blogs – Marvelous Kiddo – as Leigh's birth story is what inspired me to have a home birth of my own. See those chubby little legs up there? Born in water on the living room floor.

Having an all natural birth was one of my proudest moments. Ever.

Before I fell pregnant with my daughter I had serious issues with my body. I had not had a period in over three years. Due to polycystic ovaries doctors told me I would have trouble falling pregnant. I went to see an endocrinologist and test after test could not explain why I was not menstruating. I was living in London at the time, working as a designer in a busy ad agency and although I tried to lead a healthy lifestyle my poor bones were stressed.

My partner and I decided to move back home to Australia. I felt relaxed as soon as I stepped off the plane and within 4 days we had conceived. I had no idea I was pregnant until I was almost 8 weeks. Not having periods was normal but my sudden distaste for coffee had to be questioned. Not to mention a huge love for ketchup like I have never, ever felt before.

We were over the moon but part of me was terrified that something might still go wrong. It took a while to feel relaxed about the pregnancy. My partner dropped the hint a few times about home birth, and somehow I stumbled upon Leigh's birth story on here. That was the start of me beginning to believe in my own body. I read all of Ina May. Sheila Kitzinger. Michel Odent. I surrounded myself with positive tales. I started seeing an osteopath, who believed my lower back was so rigid I would have trouble birthing. She kept this to herself and continued to treat me. There was also concern that my blood pressure was so low I may pass out. I was never afraid of pain, but I was concerned about my endurance levels.

My labour went for 7 hours. I surrendered and trusted my body would know what to do. It did. There were no complications.

P.S. (From Leigh): Anna is one of those people that, although she lives half-a-world away, I feel such a strong connection with. I adore her blog, and I hope we (and our kiddos) can meet one day! Read Rummey Bears for lovely, honest reflections on life as a new mother.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Waterbabies

This amazing series of underwater photos by Phil Shaw just made my day. Click here to see lots more, and to read more about these wonderful water babies. Via Automatism.

Monday, June 14, 2010

They had me at "Oh the Bouncy Bouncy"

Just a little breastfeeding rap to kick off your week, performed at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine. Via Mama Knows Breast.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Weekend Wonderful

This morning I discovered the most amazing Flickr photostream full of mama-goddess, birth-beauty, belly gorgeousness: Photographer Christy Scherrer's work just moves me to my core! Check it out, here.

I also was touched and inspired by a quote Christy posted on her photostream, attributed to Deborah Hudson, and I thought I would share it here.

Have a wonderful weekend, wherever you are!

Sister

The word that I offer you is courage.

It comes from the French word for heart, and from now on, your heart will be bound not only to your mate, but also to the child your love has created.

It took courage for you to decide to bring a child into this confounding world. It took courage to choose pregnancy. It took courage for you to bring your pregnancy this far. Your heart beats now and passes that courage on to your child.

Your journey from here until your baby's entry into this world will take more courage than you may think you have. But I promise you that courage springs from your beating heart. Know it is there, waiting for you to summon it.

You are on the threshold of the greatest mystery of life, that edge between the other world and this one. You will never be so close to the edge as you are at the moment you give birth. Have courage and drink in the power of this great mystery.

When you labor, open your heart.

When you bring forth, open your heart.

As your child grows, open your heart.

When your child gives you grief, open your heart.

When this child grows to adulthood and leaves your home for another, open your heart.

For it is when we open our hearts that we have the greatest capacity for the courage to be human, to be women and to touch the goddess.

Blessings upon you


copyright 2002 Deborah Hudson

Monday, February 8, 2010

Cashmere Tartan Sling

I am dying over this yummy, limited-edition, cashmere tartan sling! At The Little Sling Company, in London. Via Sakura Bloom.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Sunday Surfing

Photo originally for Vanity Fair, by Tim Walker, here. How adorable is Alber Elbaz, peeking out from behind those divine little watermelon-hued dresses he designed? This week I posted this and many other visual delights on my new blog, The Bean and The Bear. Visit, why don't you?

It has been quite a while since I posted a batch of weekend links, and meanwhile a bunch of interesting things I've discovered online have been piling up on my desktop. Well, it's time to share, kiddos! I hope you enjoy my first edition of Sunday Surfing (Birth Edition)...

Not only is Giselle Bündchen the new poster mama of home birth (saying she "wanted to be very aware and present during the birth...I didn't want to be drugged" Giselle describes the water birth of her son as "tranquil" and says it "didn't hurt in the slightest"), she also has nice things to say about breastfeeding on-demand: “In these first months, the baby breastfeeds twice in two hours or three times in three hours. It is really tiring, but it’s such a special moment that I am enjoying to the maximum...I have dedicated my days completely to him.” Read more, here.

Here is a really inspiring, happy story about a recent VBAC birth of triplets!

Ever heard of unassisted hospital birth? Well, it happened to this family when a busy hospital staff failed to respond to a father's calls for help from within their own maternity ward.

You must read this fantastic interview with the Director of the film, Orgasmic Birth.

Although these images are hard to look at (a warning: some could be triggering if you've had a traumatic experience with c-section), I am in awe of the artist's capability to channel her birth experience into extremely powerful and affecting artwork. Via Birth Cut.

More women in California are dying from pregnancy complications (the rate has tripled in the last decade). This article explores the possible affect that skyrocketing rates of induction and c-section have had on maternal mortality in that state. (Thanks to Marvelous Kiddo reader Alex for sending me that link!)

A new study shows that its OK to eat when you're in labor.

I love this roundup of great info concerning things to consider after your baby is born.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

The Return of Birth Story of the Week: Motherhood is a Gift Unlike Any Other

Photo via Dear Baby

Over the holidays I got out of the rhythm of posting weekly birth stories, so I am thrilled to be back with this feature, which I know is a reader favorite. The response to my call for birth stories has been wonderful, and I thank everyone so deeply for sending them in. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate the sharing of these intimate and inspiring events, and I look forward to continuing this feature on my blog for weeks and months to come.

Today's story is one of my favorites. Contributed by Melissa of the wonderful blog, Dear Baby, this is a beautifully-written reflection on becoming a mother and the transformative act of giving birth. I also think Melissa's story goes a long way in showing the importance of knowing what you want in advance of your labor and creating a solid birth plan, as well as birthing in an environment in which that plan can be supported fully -- in this case, a hospital that has some very progressive, mama-and-baby-friendly practices.

Thank you, Melissa, for sharing this inspirational journey with us!

XOXO, Leigh

I’ll start this story at the moment my water broke. It was 2:45pm on Monday afternoon and Brent was taking a shower. I’d been hounding him to make a run to the grocery store with me to stock our cabinets before Everly arrived. I’d had mild contractions all day – but nothing significant and then, in a matter minutes, I went from bouncing on my big blue birth ball while answering email, to standing in the bathroom, leggings around my knees and staring at my husband in disbelief. There was no doubting what was happening – my water had broken and the impossible wait for our daughter had come to an end.

While Brent called our family and prepared the last items for our hospital bag, I went to work baking peanut butter cookies for the nurses in labor and delivery. He put on an old Wilson Pickett album and as music filled the house, I tried to steady my emotions. We had done so much, worked so hard, dreamed of this day and it was finally here. My contractions begin to get stronger and I was hit with a wave of emotions. I went into Everly’s nursery, leaned my head against her crib and sobbed. I said a long prayer to God and asked him to watch over Everly and I in the coming hours. I called my best friend Natasha and said “This is it. It’s really happening, I’ll call you when she’s here”

By this time, Brent had called our doula, Lindsay who had made her way over from the East Bay. My contractions were strong, but manageable and I leaned against the kitchen counter, rocking to “Hey Jude” on the record player and trying to focus myself. It was important to me to labor in the comfort and quiet of our house as long as possible. As my contractions grew stronger and closer together, I used my hypnobabies cds to stay calm and centered. Brent and Lindsay massaged my back and hips as I breathed through them. It was about 6:30pm when I felt they were getting so intense that I couldn’t breathe through them in comfort any longer. We climbed in the car and made the 15 minute ride through the Castro and Noe Valley to St. Luke’s Hospital in the Mission. The car ride was miserable as I had to sit upright, wearing a seat belt as each contraction rolled through my body. More than anything, I just wanted to get there and get centered on the task that lay ahead of me.

It was 7:00pm by the time I had checked in, undressed, and gotten settled in the labor and delivery room. Brent wrapped his arms around me and we swayed back and forth as I worked through each contraction. It is hard to really understand what a contraction feels like until you are in the middle of one. It isn’t like menstrual cramps, it isn’t a head to toe ache – it’s a deep, intense, active pain that rolled from my lower belly and spread through my body. Every contraction had a steady increase in strength, a peak, and then a merciful end – giving me enough time to gather my breath and courage to prepare for the next one...

To read the entirety of this gorgeous and moving story, click here.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Five Months (Yesterday)


Hard to believe these guys have only been brothers for five months. Seems more like forever...

Monday, January 18, 2010

A Walk To 40 Weeks

Ryan from Pacing the Panic Room recently started documenting a friend's pregnancy in a series of terrific photos and I love the concept: each week, mama-to-be, Tricia, is being photographed as she strolls around the neighborhood. One week at a time, the photos are threaded together on Ryan's blog and viewers can navigate them with the help of a horizontal scroll bar. The effect is that we see gorgeous Tricia moving through space and time, complete with an ever-expanding bump. Genius! Check it out, here.

And if you haven't already seen it, be sure to go back and enjoy the wonderful series of photos Ryan took of his wife, Cole, during her recent pregnancy.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Baby Cuddles: Back By Popular Demand!

Oh, you wonderful readers! Ever since my last baby cuddles post my inbox has runneth over with more amazing images, leaving me with no choice but to do a follow-up! I think this has the makings of a regular feature, so keep those photos comin'.

Today's first photo, above, was sent in by Paige from the awesome blog, I Heart You. Here's what paige said: "Here is my most recent favorite picture of my husband and 4 month old son taken on Christmas morning at our neighborhood park." Paige, both of those boys are too cute for words, and that hat is off-the-charts adorable.

This week of entries was very strong on daddy-baby cuddles, like this one, from my good friend Corie, which shows an achingly sweet cuddle between her husband and son...
...and this one, sent in by Coralissa, that captures the fun of a Hawaiian beach snuggle shared by her husband and son...
...AND this one, send in by Tanya, which shows a heart-melting daddy-daughter moment...
Not to be outdone in the cuddly-cuteness department, those same three moms also sent gorgeous photos of themselves with their babies, and I have to say, they give those adorable dads a run for their money! Here are Corie, Coralissa, and Tanya, in that order:
I even got a couple of submissions showing sweet baby-grandparent cuddles, too! The first one is from my blog-friend Rebecca:
Rebecca wrote, "I have to send along this photo of my dad, "Papa" to his grandkids, loving on his newest grandbaby Noah. You can just barely see the sling in this shot. I love seeing my folks wearing Noah in the sling--I think it's adorable. Papa is a baby man. He'll pick up babies and walk and sway for hours so mommies get a break. It's not just his own grandchildren either--he'll borrow any baby at church if it's mama will let go for a minute. LOL. He's the best grandpa ever. I like the contrast of my dad's grizzled 61 year old cheek against the Noah's precious baby skin."

And this next one is from Coralissa. It shows baby Nainoa having a tender snuggle with his grandmother in Hawaii on the last morning of their recent visit, before heading home to Las Vegas:
Moving back to mama-baby beauty, I was loving these two pics from Amber, who shared these words: "Here are 2 of my favorite cuddling photos of me and my little Axel River. The first is the day after he was born. He was so fresh and new. I had him at home, which was so special, so we had our snuggle time on our own sofa. Photo #2: Axel was born in the cull (his amniotic sack did not break). So, we gave him a water middle name. We also love the Yuba River near our home which is what he is named for. This is a photo of me and Axel at 'his' river when he was 4 months old."
Marvelous Kiddo reader, Katie, sent in the following three photos:
"My son, Ben, has Down syndrome and was recently diagnosed with Autism as well. He is eight now, and these pictures of him are very close to my heart...I would love to tell you his birth story someday, but for now I will just say that he was very close to death when he was born, was not expected to recover, let alone breastfeed. He was my first and I was green, naive, and VERY stubborn. Even in the NICU I insisted on trying, even though the nurses were sadly shaking their heads at me and his poor muscle tone. He was released after 21 days, and after 2 months of pumping for him, he and I finally had a successful latch with the help of a LLL leader. He nursed happily for 17 months, and I can honestly say it was one of the most triumphant periods of my life. He is now a sweet, cuddly boy with a strong healthy body and a great spirit. He has many challenges, but we can't imagine life without our little man. He's taught us so much."

I love that last photo of Ben with one of his siblings, and it provides a great segue to two more of my favorites from this week, both showing sibling love as expressed through cuddles:
Thank you to Marcela and Ariella for sharing those precious sibling snuggles with us.

I can't wait to check my inbox for more sweetness this week! XOXO, Leigh